学习笔记 1 - Narcissists - 关于自我的属性 - 小铜 的网络笔记

作者：Frank E.Yeomans

The Grandiose Self and the Ego Ideal
For most people, the “ego ideal” is what we aspire to
For narcissists, if you’re not the “ego ideal”, you’re nothing
– This can result in harshness and punitiveness

夸大的自我 与 理想的自我

对于大多数人来说，“理想自我” 是我们渴望成为的；

对于narcissists来说，如果你不是“理想自我”，那么你就什么都不是。

这会导致严酷性和惩罚性。

• The Grandiose Self of the NPD patient has a facsimile of identity integration.
• This Grandiose Self distinguishes NPD from other Personality Disorders.
• It is a compensatory self structure - it defends against feelings of inferiority and emptiness
• It provides some stability of self functioning - but at a cost

Narcissists的夸大自我 有一个身份整合的副本；
这种夸大的自我将narcissists与其他人格障碍区分开来；

这是一种补偿性的自我结构 —它抵御自卑感和空虚感；
它提供了一些自我功能的稳定性，但需要付出代价。

The need to maintain the illusion that the self includes all that is ideal, and contains no negative elements, leads to a defensive withdrawal from genuine relationships and, to varying degrees, from reality - Clinical Examples

Contact with the real world threatens the person's psychological equilibrium

     For the narcissist, reality is an aggression.

It is not just self-esteem but the entire sense of self that is at stake.

需要保持一种错觉，即自我包括所有理想的东西，不包含负面因素，这会导致防御性地退出真正的关系，并在不同程度上退出现实—临床例子.

与现实世界的接触会威胁到一个人的心理平衡.
     对于narcissists来说，现实是一种侵犯

这不仅关系到自尊，也关系到整个自我意识。

The Grandiose Self defends against anxieties, but there is a price to pay.

The grandiose self provides these protections but at the cost of sacrificing genuine connections with others and to some degree with reality.

夸大的自我可以抵御焦虑，但是要付出代价。
夸大的自我提供了这些保护，但代价是牺牲了与他人以及在某种程度上与现实的真正联系。